17 and I need some life/dating advice? (edited+reposted)?

you hardly sound 17... you seem too mature for highschool girls. wait it out til college, there are plenty of people who have never been in relationships, you're not a weirdo. in college no one [or most people] won't know who you are, so you can build your image into whatever you want. you won't be that nerdy kid anymore. you will meet lots of new girls, and by 18 pr 19 people have matured a little bit and [if they are looking for a relationship] they will want a solid relationship. basically you're very young and you shouldn't rush into a relationship just because you want to be able to say you've been in one. don't preoccupy yourself with finding a girl, things happen in time. you're only 17, live your life, and soon enough you'll meet someone worth your time.