Don't women in the West know that what they say about Muslim men being controlling, etc, isn't true?

It all depends upon the muslim man in question. I knew one who treated his American wife like chit; walked all over her without thinking about it twice. He married her for two reasons: and obedience; however, his brand of obedience was she was to do his bidding, which meant she was to do his studies; that is, she was to take his notes, do his homework, projects and reports; not only that she was to get her azz out of that bed and serve his eight or so guests whenever he brought them around in the wee hours of the morning. When he was countered about the homework bit he admitted he could easily do it on his own but he didn't feel like it besides what the hell was she for. Arab women told me he wanted a servant; they were right. He held to those verses with iron fists; when she refused to do his homework, etc for him he beat her senseless till she, in the end submitted and became subservient; I mean what else to you call it when a man has his wife do what he should be doing and knows he should be doing it on his own? Later on he got even more out of her by making deals with her. Another thing; when he called her she'd had better drop what she was doing and run, this one time she was reading a fashion magazine, she used to be NY high-fashion model; when her nose is in one of those magazines you can start her feet on fire she'll just put the flame out and continue reading; all he did was whisper her name and she literally flew the five feet between them. Always; remember the exceptions; they'll catch you every time. There are always exceptions; always.