Have you ever felt like you don't fit in...anywhere?

Yeah. I'm 16 and live in the US and its kind of the same concept. It seems you have to dress a certain way and act a certain way to get noticed, and guys seem to notice them more too. It's sooo annoying and yes they are shallow. Don't let them ruin it for you though. When you get out of school and into college and life, no one even cares about that kind of stuff anymore.